Anger Management

Every week hundreds of post game press conferences are held across the nation without much significant dialogue: “We could’ve played better, We were over confident, We just didn’t show up, Injuries killed us,” etc. No real news, that is until this week! This has been quite a week for Oklahoma with the national sports media.

OSU’s Head Football Coach, Mike Gundy, has become famous, or in some people’s minds “infamous” this week. The highlights of his post game press conference have hit all the major news outlets and YouTube, as well! I saw a story earlier this week on Good Morning America, showing the now well-known video tape once again. I have seen it several times on Channel 9 and heard Kelly Ogle’s Two Cents segment twice now. Words and phrases like “Garbage... Get your facts straight... I’m a man... Who’s the kid here?” and “I want to puke” are etched in my mind.

Opinions vary widely among coaches, sports writers, comedians and fans alike. Some have called Coach Gundy a hero and others a lunatic. He has endeared himself to his players and others for life, and he has provided ammo for an additional lifetime for his enemies. Some want to give him a raise; others have called for his resignation. Why would anyone ever want to be on TV?

Is anger ever justified? Yes. Even our Lord got angry for the right reasons. Remember the scene in the temple in Matthew 20:12-13?

Jesus entered the temple area and drove out all who were buying and selling there. He overturned the tables of the money changers and the benches of those selling doves. “It is written,” he said to them, “My house will be called a house of prayer, but you are making it a “den of robbers.”

I can only imagine what The Jerusalem Business Weekly wrote about his actions: “Mad Man Disrupts Business in the Temple Area; Money Changers sue for Damages.” What can we learn from Jesus’ actions? It’s okay to be angry for a righteous cause, but in our anger we must not sin. Jesus did not sin that day. After all, it was His Father’s House that was being defiled. He had every right to defend His Father’s House.

Mike Gundy had every right to defend his player, as well, but none of us has the right to degrade another person in the process. That may be where Coach Gundy stepped across the line. We can all appreciate his concern for his players, but we also know that none of us chooses our words very wisely when we’re angry. I know I don’t. The Bible says Be angry and sin not. That’s easier said than done. In fact, none of us can do that without the Holy Spirit living in us. The evidence of His Presence? The Fruit of the Spirit growing in us daily – love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. How is the fruit in your life?

Blessings!
Looking forward to seeing you this Sunday!

Mark

8 comments (Add your own)

1. Robin Frank wrote:
Great blog Mark! I agree it is most difficult to choose our words when angry since most anger is just hurt manifested. I had mixed feelings about Coach Gundy's "rant". He should be standing up for his players, but as we've all seen, he didn't choose the proper way to do that and now I think he will regret reacting in such a way and hopefully we can all remember to think first when angry.

September 27, 2007 @ 12:53 PM

2. Matt Leininger wrote:
Think before you speak, right? That's easier said than done, although after ten years of marriage and our baby girl on the way, Matt will have to work harder on this one! Children hear and remember FOR LIFE what we say and do. My focus has changed completely since we found out we were having our first child. Now, I have to really step up and be the man God created me to be. Stand up and defend my little Kat, you betcha!

September 27, 2007 @ 2:09 PM

3. Heather Briggs wrote:
The point of the blog was good Pastor Mark. It is always good to remember to keep our anger in check or to ask God to help us with that. I will say that I was kinda exasperated to see that the church will become another place to jump on the latest band wagon. I do hope we can all keep the focus on the "true" purpose of the blog and not get lost in the drama surrounding it.

Much love to my church family...Heather

September 27, 2007 @ 2:16 PM

4. robertaanne10866@hotmail.com wrote:
Fantastic blog Mark. Oh, how I agree with you. It is wonderful to see the coach support his players. I don't think he needs to apologize for defending his players. He has only endeared himself to me, his team, and supporters. Wow, what a man!

September 27, 2007 @ 2:42 PM

5. Carolyn Evans wrote:
I am a OU grad but I support Mike for what he said. Too often the media says things in print and the person on the receiving end cannot answer. He was right when he said he wished he had scripted thw comment before the TV interview. Good going Mike.

September 28, 2007 @ 6:10 PM

6. walter baylis wrote:
I think that the way Mike Gundy handled himself was very unprofessional. I believe that he should have scheduled a meeting with the editor who wrote the article and discussed it with her face to face.

September 29, 2007 @ 12:48 PM

7. M. Valois wrote:
My thought is this we saw only part of the store. We did not see all the footage nor do you see what was written. Mark makes a great point, but we need to know all the facts for drawing a correct conclusion. The news media only puts on part of the information resulting only a particular truth.

September 30, 2007 @ 8:34 PM

8. David Case wrote:
Means alot to me.

October 2, 2007 @ 9:44 AM

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